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Be Neighborly | Keep
Guests Safe| The Party Environment | Respect
Guests Low-Risk Choices | Keep Things Under Control
| Obey Virginia Laws
Be Neighborly
One of
the worst things that can happen is to disturb your neighbors. No one
wants to deal with disgruntled neighbors who may call the police or complain
to your landlord. These problems can be easily avoided by taking the following
steps:
| Notify Neighbors |
Let them know they can call you or if there are
any disturbances. This way you can avoid a violation of the Blacksburg
Noise Ordinance. |
| Respect Your Neighbor’s Rights |
Remember, just as you do, your neighbors have the right to an environment
free from unreasonable disturbances and high-risk behaviors that put
them and other community members at-risk. |
| Correct Outside Disturbances |
Be alert to and correct any outside disturbances
or violations of the town’s noise ordinance. |
| Clean Up Outside |
Police the area after the party or the next morning. |
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Keep Your Guests Safe
There are
a number of things you need to be concerned bout, including alcohol overdose,
drinking and driving, high-risk drinking, arguments, fights, and harassment.
| Know About Alcohol Overdose |
There are a number of early warning signs
and at-risk behaviors that increase the risk for alcohol overdose.
Take notice of these behaviors, as they indicate that person may
experience difficulties at some point in the evening. The best time
to intervene is when you notice a person is engaging in these behaviors.
Some of the early signs of risk include:
- Drinking quickly, playing drinking games, multiple shots, and
chugging or funneling drink;
- Vomiting; and
- Mixing alcohol and other drugs.
Learn more about alcohol overdoses here. |
| Monitor Guests |
Be aware of guest who are drinking quickly, playing drinking games,
or engaging in other "high-risk" behaviors. |
| Assume responsibility to help a guest who may have had too much
to drink. Be alert to possible alcohol overdose. Remember that the
first sign of an overdose is usually vomiting. |
| Be aware of potentially violent situations, including arguments,
and racial, religious, and sexual harassment. |
| See that any intoxicated individuals have a safe way home (i.e.,
a sober escort), or make adequate accommodations for them to stay
over night. |
| Provide Non-Drinking Drivers |
Consider providing non-drinking designated drivers
for those who may have had too much to drink. |
| Getting Home Safe |
Make sure women have a safe ride home. |
| Don't allow guests to drink and drive. Many people take the keys
when people arrive so they have an opportunity to intervene before
they leave. For tips on how to intervene visit SPEAK
UP. |
| If someone refuses not to drink and drive try and convince other
guests not to ride with them. Passengers are usually the one's killed
or seriously injured in drinking and driving accidents. For tips on
how to intervene visit SPEAK UP.
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The Party Environment
The environment
where you are having the event can have a substantial influence on people’s
behavior at the party. You can avoid many problem situations before they
start with a little preplanning.
| Party
Entrance |
Place a sign at the
entrance indicating your house rules, for example: No funneling or
shot gunning; No drinking games; No underage drinking allowed. |
| Take the keys to ensure
no one drinks and drives. |
| If you are serving alcohol,
ID guests and identify those of legal drinking age. |
| Atmosphere |
Create an environment that allows your
guests to feel comfortable making low-risk drinking choices,
including choosing not to drink. |
| Emphasize friendship, conversation and
other activities rather than drinking alcohol. |
| If you have a party theme, be sure that
it does not revolve around alcohol. |
| Be a good role model for others by modeling
the behavior you expect of your guests, Model legal, safe and appropriate
behaviors. |
| Offer activities for your guests (i.e.,
games, dancing, contests) that do not involve alcohol use. |
| Remember that alcohol is not essential
for enjoying social events. The real value of social events is being
with friends and family. |
| Beverages |
Have and offer nonalcoholic
beverages. |
| If you are serving alcohol,
serve low-alcohol beverages (i.e., light beer) and refuse to serve
anyone who is visibly intoxicated. |
| Have shots/jiggers available
to deliver measured amounts of alcohol. |
| Provide bar service,
especially for liquor. |
| Food |
Provide food and snacks, or have your
guests them bring snacks. You should always have food when alcohol
is served, as it slows the absorption of alcohol. |
| Avoid salty foods when possible. |
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Respect Guests Low-Risk Choices
The environment
where you are having the event can have a substantial influence on people’s
behavior at the party. You can avoid many problem situations before they
start with a little preplanning.
- For those who choose to drink, low-risk consumption is
acceptable. Affirm those who choose to drink alcohol legally, safely,
and appropriately and support those who choose not to drink.
- Do not force alcohol on your guests or allow others to exert these
types of pressures.
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Keep Things Under Control
To ensure
your safety and that of your guests there are a number of things you can
do both before and during a party. Follow the following guidelines and
problems will be avoided.
| Before the Party |
Prepare
and post your "House Rules." |
| Allow only invited guests
to stay at your gathering. Letting in people you do not know can cause
a multiple of problems, including arguments, fights, and disruptive
behavior. |
| During the Party |
Have at least one person who is not drinking
to handle any problems that may arise. You might want a few more if
it is a large gathering. A sober person available to handle police,
medical emergencies, or other disturbances will be invaluable. |
| Discourage or do not allow guests to engage
in high-risk drinking. Drunk guests are the primary source
if problems. For tips on how to intervene visit SPEAK
UP. |
| If you are providing alcohol, it is best
to serve all drinks to guests rather than having an open bar. In this
way you can keep an eye on those guests who may be overindulging. |
| Stop serving alcohol about one hour before
you want the party to end. This will help ensure your guests safety
on their way home. |
| Call the police immediately if things
begin to get out of control. There assistance will be greatly appreciated.
You would be surprised how things will calm done when you announce
that the police have been called. |
| After the Party |
Don't allow guests to
linger outside, as this is a primary source of noise for your neighbors. |
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Obey Virginia Laws
It is also
important that you are aware of Virginia law concerning alcohol use and
the possible criminal and civil penalties. You can be held both criminally
and civilly liable for violations of the law. As a social host, you can
be sued for damages, injury, or death and even held criminally responsible
for the actions of those you serve.
| A Few Pointers
on Class 1 Misdemeanors |
A Class 1 Misdemeanor and punishable by a $2,500 fine, 12 months
in jail, and up to 100 hours of community service. In addition,
it will give you a permanent criminal record that can effect future
job prospects, your right to purchase a gun, and your ability to
obtain licenses and bonding often necessary when opening your own
business. The following are all Class 1 Misdemeanors: |
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Providing false information on keg registration. |
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Charging for alcohol
without an ABC license. Think you won't be arrested? Arrests in
Blacksburg for this offense are up by 300% in the last year and
will continue to rise. |
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Serving or purchasing
alcohol for those who are not of legal drinking age (21 in Virginia). |
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Using a Fake ID to establish a false identity
(i.e., using someone else's ID to purchase alcohol). |
| Know and Obey the Law |
For more information see: Virginia
Commonwealth Alcohol Statutes |
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